I wonder...
I am always wondering what it is that makes some mom's act as if they were there daughter's worst enemies. Like why they tend to put them down with their ever so mean comments or give the silent treatment in a foolishly attempt to make them change their mind about something or someone........
Why? Are mom's not able to just love their daughter's as they are. To value the person that they become and to nurture when needed?
Yeap...I have me one of those. And I am almost 100% convince that if it was not for my daughter, my own mom would have thrown me out a very long time ago. She is still resentful about me having gone away to school. Unbelievable...this was 10 years ago and she still carries this around!
Makes me wonder how I will be as a mother when my own daughter gets older. I sometimes have these visions that I turn out to be as hurtful as my own...but I shouldn't say or think this...perhaps because I am going through it.
In other news, my little baby is turning 3 on Wed. the 12th. I can't believe how fast these couple of years have just moved right along. I am happy with my munchkin. Heck of a lot of work but truly blessed. She is healthy, bright and very loving....what more can I ask for...only for her to continue to grow as she is and for us to be a true bond of what mother and daughter should be.
God bless!!!!
Why? Are mom's not able to just love their daughter's as they are. To value the person that they become and to nurture when needed?
Yeap...I have me one of those. And I am almost 100% convince that if it was not for my daughter, my own mom would have thrown me out a very long time ago. She is still resentful about me having gone away to school. Unbelievable...this was 10 years ago and she still carries this around!
Makes me wonder how I will be as a mother when my own daughter gets older. I sometimes have these visions that I turn out to be as hurtful as my own...but I shouldn't say or think this...perhaps because I am going through it.
In other news, my little baby is turning 3 on Wed. the 12th. I can't believe how fast these couple of years have just moved right along. I am happy with my munchkin. Heck of a lot of work but truly blessed. She is healthy, bright and very loving....what more can I ask for...only for her to continue to grow as she is and for us to be a true bond of what mother and daughter should be.
God bless!!!!
posted by lulubel @ 11:25 AM
2 Comments:
At 11:17 AM,
Yummerson said…
Happy Birthday little baby girl!
Mom's are like that for selfish reasons. My mom was like that for a very long time. I think she wanted me to be just like her and when I didn't meet those expectations she resented me. I left the house and now we're the best of friends. I think all moms at what point or another in their lives do some self reflecting, when your mom does, she'll come around.
Take care!
At 9:40 AM,
Yummerson said…
Just stopping by to see how you're doing.
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